Emilia Song -

Tell us a bit about yourself.

Emilia Song: I’ve been an adult entertainer for almost six years. I come from a theater background (I have a BFA in it), so it was a natural fit. I started by solo camming, and at the time, I didn’t think I’d branch into the porn side of the business, but then I started working with other people about two years ago, and I remembered how much I loved collaborating. I started shooting for other companies last spring. I’m a huge nerd, and superhero cosplay is my shit! I love sci fi and fantasy and talking about the science of sex. I’m also a singer, and my favorite party trick is sitting on my hitachi while singing showtunes and pop songs.

What are your stats/measurement?

Emilia Song: 32C-26-38, height 5’3” weight 115 lbs.

How did you create the name?

Emilia Song: I was a devout Doctor Who fan when I started camming, so my name is derived from a combination of my favorite companions: Amelia Pond and River Song. I didn’t want to be too obvious, so I changed “Amelia” to “Emilia.”

Do you sponsor or promote any charities?

Emilia Song: I do! I try to contribute to trans and sex workers’ rights organizations a few times per year. I’ve always been a huge supporter of LGBTQ+ rights, and right now, trans folks need the most support. I look for smaller, local organizations like TWOCC (Trans Women of Color Collective) that focus directly on people in the community and sex worker-organized groups like the Desiree Alliance.

What do you enjoy most about being a porn star?

Emilia Song: I love the flexibility and the creative freedom. I come from a theater background, so the entire production process – devising cosplays, performing (live and for clips) writing parody scripts, editing videos, etc. – is a lot of fun for me. I produce most of my own content.

What makes you different from other performers?

Emilia Song: I publicly embrace my awkwardness. A lot of us are awkward – which is fine, you gotta be a little strange to do what we do, and that’s not a bad thing – but our fans don’t really see it. But with me they do. A cam show isn’t complete if I haven’t tripped over or spilled something, and my humor is more groan-worthy than a pun-loving uncle’s. I don’t know, maybe my goofiness ruins the fantasy, or maybe it makes me more relatable. Either way, my fans and followers seem to like it, and that’s what counts to me!

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Emilia Song: Physically, either Las Vegas or LA. In terms of my career, I’d like to get behind the camera more. I love script writing and directing, and porn is a great medium for it! The increased availability of video production technology has opened a lot of room for exploration, especially for women producers and directors. You’re seeing it all over the industry from dramatic sci fi pornos to radically amateur erotic Snapchat stories. Our industry’s indie scene is thriving right now, and I’m excited to see what happens over the next few years! I’m also working on a sex ed video series, so hopefully that will be my primary focus by then.

What's your favorite sexual position on and off camera? And why? stats/measurement?

Emilia Song: When it comes to cocks on camera (vaginal or anal), I like doggy best because you can get great reaction shots. Off camera, I prefer to be on my back with my legs kicked up and my feet above my partner’s shoulders. With pussy eating on camera, I like the legs held up because you can easily get two heads and one pussy in the same shot. Off camera, I actually prefer fingering to oral. I like laying side by side so we can kiss while finger fucking each other.

Which porn star would you most like to work with?

Emilia Song: I’d love to work with Elena Koshka and Kristen Scott. They’re both lovely people and look like they’d be great collaborators!

What's the weirdest thing that you've been asked to do during a shoot?

Emilia Song: That’s a good question! Maybe my standards of what’s considered “weird” are pretty high, but I haven’t really been asked to do something bizarre during a shoot.

Has the stigma around the adult industry affected you?

Emilia Song: I’m really lucky that I haven’t had to deal with the stigma much in my personal life. My friends all accept what I do, and while my parents were hesitant to accept it at first, eventually they came around. They even go out of their way to offer me advice now! It’s very sweet. The main issue I’ve had to deal with regarding the stigma is reducing my political volunteer work. I used to be very active in a state-level organization that I was extremely passionate about, but I left few years ago when I decided to pursue adult entertainment as a career. There were high school students and some fairly religious people involved, and I didn’t want to make them uncomfortable or cause a scandal.

Are there any sex acts that you want to shoot?

Emilia Song: I haven’t done any anal sex scenes yet, though I’ve done it on cam a few times.

What advice would you give to someone wanting to get into the industry?

Emilia Song: Do your research. Start by camming or making clips and learn how to model. These days, most porn performers make the bulk of their income from self-produced content. Go to conventions to network. Going to AVN last year was the best decision I made. You can sign with an agent, but it’s not always necessary. It all depends on how you want to run your business. Also, learn how to market yourself online. I wish I had studied marketing when I first started. There’s a lot of sexy people making good content out there, but you need to find people to buy it.

Have you ever been grossed out during a shoot?

Emilia Song: No, I don’t get grossed out easily. I have my limits (like no bodily fluids aside from spit, sweat and cum), but it’s hard to gross me out.

Are any sex acts taboo for you?

Emilia Song: I only play with spit and cum. I don’t get grossed out by other bodily fluids, but it’s still a turn off.

What hobbies and interests do you have outside of the industry?

Emilia Song: I love to sing, so I do it constantly. I also like to draw portraits and hike.

Do you get recognized outside of the industry?

Emilia Song: I’ve been recognized a few times, but no one’s ever approached me. They usually message me later and say they think they saw me. I always deny it whether or not they’re right.

What's the most difficult thing about being a porn star?

Emilia Song: Being silenced. The war on sex work is ramping up, and we’re being kicked off of sites all the time. Far too often the people who claim to support marginalized groups ignore us or call us brainwashed. The majority of people in power don’t respect us even though It’s incredibly frustrating.

Do you use sex toys? If so which ones?

Emilia Song: My Hitachi is my favorite toy followed by anal dildos (I have two Vixen Creation Realistics that my butt loves).

To date which porn scene are you most proud of?

Emilia Song: My Harley Quinn, Poison Ivy, and Catwoman threesome with Chrissy LeBlanc as Ivy and Sonia Harcourt as Catwoman. We had such great chemistry, and it was Sonia’s first time with a woman, and she got two! I got to write the intro bit, and that rekindled my love for script writing. I’d been doing cosplay clips for a while, but the Gotham villainesses threesome had a more structured story than the others. Since then, my cosplay clips have become more elaborate parodies. My early cosplay clips were mostly without dialogue, but my last few have been heavily scripted (Spider Gwen’s Miles Morales Fantasy and Harley Quinn and Poison Ivy’s Snapchat).

Do you watch porn? If so what type?

Emilia Song: I used to but I can’t anymore. I just get too distracted by the people in it! I usually just wind up thinking, “oh, wow, I like what she’s doing!” or “I wonder whose dick that is.” I actually get off to my own porn more than other people’s these days. It sounds egotistical, but I think it’s because my body remembers the sensations that I’m watching. I get to relive it. When I did watch it for myself, I was really into DP and device bondage.

Which other porn stars have you worked with?

Emilia Song: Aside from Sonia and Chrissy, I’ve worked with Chad White, Jmac, Sam Shock, Kyle Madison, Will Poundher, Tyler Steel, Violet October, Steve Rickz, Eddie Danger, POV Joe, Jaden Storm, Jack + Jill (from Chaturbate), Lila and Antonio Starzi, Conor Coxxx, and Berlyn Toy. I’m sure I’m forgetting someone. . .

If you were interviewing a porn star what would you ask them?

Emilia Song: What was the first porn you ever saw? Mine was a photo of a woman sitting on a throne surrounded by dicks. The way the guys were standing make it look like they were part of the throne. Their dicks were all fanned out like a sunburst, and she had one of them in her hand and the other near her open mouth. This was back in the late 90s during the age of dial up, and I remember being so fascinated with how shiny she looked. She had beautiful tits!

How do you stay in shape?

Emilia Song: I love to run. I have asthma, so for years I couldn’t run for more than two minutes without having an asthma attack. Then I discovered an inhaler trick, and now I simply love it!